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Do you change your scents with the seasons? I do but I’ve read articles where others are not advocates of doing such a thing. For me, my nose is sensitive enough to pick up the heavy notes, which bloom once my body temperature rises, and that’s typical in the summer. So, in essence, my decision to change, starts with me and that’s enough. I came across a good article about such a thing and wanted to share it with you. Enjoy.

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Foot Action

In a recent article in the New York Times Style Magazine, Bruce Pask talked about how hot Teva is at the moment. Coupled with the article were runway shots of men in sandals, one from Bottega Venta, and the other from Lanvin. That got me thinking, it’s likely more men will be displaying their feet in the spring and summer as a result of this article. But the question is are you ready for that? Continue reading

Pack Light This Valentine’s Day

For Valentine’s Day, aside from the pressure to show your love, the idea is to be close, very close. Don’t do the usual thing and apply something spicy right before you head out. As Erykah Badu said, “pack light.” Spritz on Atelier Cologne Oolang Infini. Its bergamot and Tunisian Neroli top notes are so fresh and clean, it’ll make her think you took an extra shower just for her. Now, she’s going to love you no matter what. But just in case you didn’t catch the hints on what to get her, by the time this scent really kicks in, its warmth will make up for your less than satisfactory romantic skills.
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Oolang Infini Cologne Absolue 6.7 fl oz $155

Not Just Any Rose For Valentine’s Day

Dear Gents,

In case you forgot, Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. I subscribe to damn near everything so I couldn’t forget as I’m receiving daily reminders.

A pleasant tap on the shoulder just came in from Le Labo, featuring one of my favorite scents, Rose 31. I just loved the graphic and decided to share. If you haven’t already tried this magnificent scent, why not treat yourself this Valentine’s Day. I think you’ll love it. It’s not girly either (although there’s nothing wrong with that).

And if you’re curious as to why I’m so in love with this one, click here.

Love,
FM

Serenity now, please

I am a huge Seinfeld fan. There are only a few episodes I haven’t seen. And no matter how many times I watch it, I laugh at the same jokes every time. A recurring theme was the use of Serenity Now during stressful moments. For some reason that popped into my head as I was reading tweets complaining about the repeated snowstorms battering the Northeast. One woman even said, “I wish Mother Nature would get her act together.” I laughed. Continue reading

Pumpkin Chai by Nest Fragrances

I like to burn candles. They give a room some umph and can change its energy. As the weather turns and it gets colder outside, I shift to heavier scented ones. I was home one day recently and decided it was a good time to try one I was sent, Pumpkin Chai by Nest Fragrances.

I will admit, when I first heard about it, I thought it’s to early to be thinking about the holidays. (Pumpkin triggers memories of mom’s cooking) But I decided I would give it a try mainly because of who’s behind Nest, Laura Slatkin.

It’s no secret that I’m a fan of Harry Slatkin’s candles. Heck, Fresh Bamboo was burning in my home last weekend. So I was naturally curious to smell Pumpkin Chai and what his wife has cooking. Yes it’s warm, and cozy and a great fall scent. But what I appreciated most of all is how subtle it is. I was not expecting that. The scent was just enough to add to the moment without overpowering it.

As we get closer to the holidays, the smells of cinnamon and pine will be chasing you as you stroll through the stores. Oddly, I never really want that in my home. Pumpkin Chai, however, is the best medium, awesome fall scent but not beating you over the head, that I’ve found.

Pumpkin Chai by Nest Fragrances retails for $32 and is a blend of wild pumpkin, spicy Masala chai, cardamom, ginger, and cinnamon. Available at Neiman Marcus and other fine boutiques.

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Jovoy Paris Custom Fragrance Experience

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Last week I attended the perfume trade show, PXA. It was held at the New York Hilton and the last day was open to the public and media. As a fragrance enthusiast, I was pretty psyched as it would give me face-to-face time with many of the brands I adore, or so I thought.

If you’ve ever attended a trade show, you know the last day is usually the slowest. By that time, a majority of the buyers have left and exhibitors are clamoring to breakdown…in other words, it’s a ghost town. Well PXA wasn’t quite a ghost town but it was slow, or at least when I arrived. But I have to say it worked to my advantage. It gave me an opportunity to have good conversations with people like Jessica M from Now Smell This (she was such a sweetheart). However, the show didn’t pack the star power I hoped for. But I did learn about a few new brands and made some new friends.

By far, the highlight of the show for me was my custom fragrance experience thanks to Jovoy Paris, a Parisian perfume house founded in 1923 by Blanche Arvoy. I stumbled upon these guys after taking interest in another brand steeped in history, Molinard that happened to be right next door. The display of their bottles, which seemed scientific and geekish, immediately caught my attention. When I found out you could get a fragrance custom made my itinerary for the afternoon was set as well as the growing line of women waiting for their chance as well. After making a few rounds, I came back to the booth and found Francois Henin holding court with four women ahead of me.

Francois, who is one of the three-member team that revived this vintage house, was quite the charming showman. He was patient, jovial and had a story for just about everything…good ones too (a particular bottle’s shaped tied back to his Grandmother riding horses and how she kept it in her riding boots or a particular scent’s highlights tied back to his grandmother carrying orange rinds in her pockets). By the time I arrived, this current sitting was well into their journey but he welcomed me with open arms. He asked questions like “if you’re in a room and you leave do you want your scent to remain,” and “would you like to smell your fragrance on your clothes the day after,” and do you want someone to have to be intimately close to know you’re wearing a fragrance,” to determine the potency of our respective fragrance tastes. It was interesting to hear the ladies responses, some liked soft scents, others wanted to communicate with their scent, while others liked something that packed a punch.

I was amazed as Francois took us through the layering of top notes also referred to as head notes (scent you first smell upon application), middle notes or heart notes (these come to the surface after the top notes ware off), and base notes or bottom notes (the final stage of a scent). Each layer had its own distinctive characteristic and set of scents. He took notes based on what you liked or disliked and when he was finished, summarized what he thought you liked and then began the building process.

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Like kids in Willie Wonka’s Candy factory, we were all in amazement as he took out his scales, began playing with droppers, alcohol, testing strips and physically shaking the mixtures to produce bubbling reactions…. say it with me, ooooo, ahhhh. Here’s the kicker, after he finished working on the scents for the four women, he would not let me leave without my creation (I was hoping he wouldn’t let me leave either). The show was literally being torn down around us but Francois would not be deterred. My colleague Harry Sheff from MR Magazine and I smelt a bit of this and that and voila we both had a custom made scent and a parting gift, Terra Incognita, just for being paitent.

My scent has a woody, resinous, animalic presence to it. Its quite potent so it won’t take many spritzes to get the job done. Portions of it remind me of Rose 31 without the floral effect which makes sense in retrospect since it is one of my favorite scents.

I’m quite anxious to see how this develops over time. I’m letting it mature in a cool place free of light. Francois said to give it about 3wks.. I thought I could wait but wore it to a BBQ over the weekend and my lady really liked it. We’ll see how she reacts in a few weeks but regardless I’m thrilled with it and am so glad I attend PXA 2009. By far one of my best fragrant moments to date.

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My New-Found Love For Penhaligon’s LP No 9

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I remember in the late 90′s someone turned me onto Penhaligon’s and I instantly became intrigued by their history. Anyone that’s been in existence this long must be doing something right. As an impulse shopper, I ran to Saks Fifth Avenue to experience their magic. Of all the scents I smelt, LP No 9 stood out the most. It was warm and very masculine in a traditional sense. It seemed like something a banker would wear. I purchased it and after wearing it for a bit, didn’t like it anymore. Why, my taste started to change. I longed for something new. So I offered it to my brother because I could see he took a liking to it.

On Thursday May 21st, New York City Policeman shattered my world when they told me my beloved brother, Lamont R. Bishop, collapsed and passed away on his way home from the gym. My body went cold and I felt alone. Nothing would ever be the same.

After I returned home from the hospital with my family, I walked into his room as I began grappling with my new reality and there it was on his dresser staring at me. I’ve gone in there hundreds of times to ask him to cut my hair, for advice, to watch Sportscenter, help him pick out a shirt and tie combo, to compare who had a better Windsor knot, to give him a hug and never paid much attention to it. But on this particular day, the first fragrance I ever gave my brother, sorely stood out. After holding it in my hand and remembering the moment I gave it to him, I took it back into my possession. I then took a quick shower because there was much to do and proceeded to spray a bit on myself. The next day I sprayed a bit more on myself and did so every day for the next week. So many things have been running through my head but in a weird way LP No 9 has bought me a bit of comfort and it will forever be a part of my scent wardrobe.

Ya see, LP No 9 will forever remind me of my brother. It is indeed masculine and very traditional. But now it also represents everything that made my brother loved by so many, endearing, smooth, sweet, familiar, and strong. LP No 9 just feels right and that’s how you felt when in the presence of Lamont.

I feel cheated by life because Lamont was a mere 35 years old when he passed. He was on his way to receiving his PH.D in psychology, is survived by his 1 year old son named Aidan A Bishop, was making plans to marry his fiancee Aquila Lovell and had an entire life ahead of him. But most of all, he always had a moment to listen because he cared. He embodied all of the good qualities we’ve come to understand a man is to stand for. He loved his family and inspired his friends and colleagues to strive for greatness.

As I sit outside his room writing this post, I’m reminded by its stillness that my beloved brother is gone. Its surreal because he was only 35. It’s surreal because we spoke the night before and he told me he was proud of me. It’s surreal because we were supposed to grow old together. It’s surreal because my brother, my only brother is no longer here. But the memories are deep, the love is deeper and I can thank God we had the best relationship one can ask for. Best of all, I can spray a bit of LP No 9 on myself and remember L, aspire to be the man he was and look forward to hanging with him again one day. In the interim, I pray for strength and understanding and hope you will pray for me as well.

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